The short answer
To prepare for your MIAM, think about what you want to sort out, such as where your children will live and how finances will be divided. You do not need answers or paperwork. Join a few minutes early from a quiet, private place. The meeting is online, one to one, and up to 60 minutes.
| Length | Up to 60 minutes |
|---|---|
| Format | Online, one to one |
| Who attends | You and the mediator only |
| Documents | Helpful but not required |
| Pressure to continue | None |
What should I think about before my MIAM?
Think about the outcomes that matter most to you. You do not need firm answers, just a sense of what you want.
- Where your children will live
- How and when your children will spend time with each parent
- Your financial situation and needs
- How property might be divided
- What matters most to you, and what you could be flexible on
What should I bring to my MIAM?
Nothing is required, but some basic information helps the mediator give you better guidance. Do not worry if you do not have it all.
- A rough summary of assets and debts
- Your children’s current arrangements
- Any court orders already in place
- The questions you want answered
How do I get ready on the day?
Set up somewhere quiet and private, and test Zoom before your start time.
- Read joining your session on Zoom and test your camera and microphone.
- Find a private room where no one can see or hear you.
- Have your notes and questions to hand.
- Join a few minutes before your start time using the link in your confirmation email.
What should I expect in the meeting?
Your MIAM is a confidential, pressure-free conversation to explore your options. It is for information, not decisions.
- Confidential
- Online, up to 60 minutes
- Individual, not with your former partner
- A chance to explore every option
- No obligation to continue to mediation
If you would like to know more about the meeting itself, read what is a MIAM.
Common questions
Do I need documents for my MIAM?
No. Basic information helps, but nothing is required.
Will my former partner be there?
No. Your MIAM is one to one. They have their own, separately.
What if I do not know what I want yet?
That is normal. The mediator will help you work through your options.
Can I move my MIAM?
Yes, with at least 72 hours notice, free of charge. Contact us to move it. See our fees page for the full terms.
When do I pay?
Payment is due at least 72 hours before your appointment. If timing is difficult, tell us and we will find a date that works.
Questions before your MIAM?
Send us a message or call us, we are happy to help. Not booked yet? Book a free consultation. Check your tech with joining your session on Zoom, or see all client guides.
This guide is general information, not legal advice.
